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Feb. 10, 2025

Earned Security & Self-Respect | The Bear S02E07 Forks

In this episode, we explore Richie’s transformative journey as he experiences the five key conditions that foster security of attachment. Sent to a Michelin-starred restaurant, Richie initially perceives it as a punishment—an...

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Jan. 6, 2025

Navigating Dinner Table Chaos | The Bear S02E06 Fishes

Dinner can be a battlefield when disorganized attachment takes the lead. In this episode, the hosts explore The Bear , Season 2, Episode 6, "Fishes," breaking down the intense family dynamics and survival strategies at play. ...

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Dec. 23, 2024

Growth Through Reflection and Play | The Bear S02E05 Pop!

What does it look like when characters begin to grow into themselves and their relationships? In this podcast episode, the hosts unpack The Bear , Season 2, Episode 5, "Pop!", focusing on Tina’s newfound confidence and vulner...

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Dec. 9, 2024

Exploring Emotional Regulation | The Bear S02E04 Honeydew

We’re all about helping you make sense of attachment theory, and this episode of The Bear gives us plenty to dig into. In Season 2, Episode 4, "Honeydew," we follow Marcus on his adventure to Copenhagen. He’s nervous about le...

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Oct. 28, 2024

Dismissive Avoidant Dynamics | The Bear S02E03 Sundae

We help you understand the nuances around attachment theory. Dismissive avoidant attachment. Do you understand what that means? Don't worry, we have you covered! We are looking into childhood-rooted emotional dynamics and cop...

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Oct. 14, 2024

Exploring Second Chances | The Bear S02E02 Pasta

Are you confused with Attachment Theory? We Can Help. There is a Buddhist parable of life as a game of hide and seek, emphasizing the importance of being found and the delight in being discovered. Our discussion covers vario...

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Sept. 30, 2024

Value in Vulnerability | The Bear S02E01 Beef

Are you confused with Attachment Theory? We Can Help. We are back in "The Bear," Season 2, Episode 1 "Beef." Our discussion begins with an emphasis on vulnerability and authenticity, noting how such openness is often recipro...

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Sept. 13, 2024

Braciole, Brotherhood, and Reconciliation | The Bear S01E08 | Attachm…

Waking up early for our first-ever morning recording, we kicked off the finale of season one of "The Bear" with a Chicago Fizz cocktail while exploring the show's broader themes of repair and healing. Join us as we savor thes...

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Sept. 3, 2024

Emotional Turbulence in The Bear's Kitchen | The Bear S1E7 | Episode …

Gain a deeper understanding of attachment theory as we break down the penultimate episode of FX Hulu's "The Bear." Discover how the characters' emotional challenges and attachment styles contribute to the show's gripping tens...

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July 12, 2024

Family Bonds in a Chaotic Kitchen | The Bear S1E6 "Ceres" | Episode 0…

The dynamics within "The Bear's" kitchen are as hectic as they are revealing. We analyze the roles and emotional needs of characters like Sugar, Carmi, Michael, and Richie, examining how their interactions reflect their attac...

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June 28, 2024

Repairing Relationships | The Bear S1E5 "Sheridan" | Episode 011 | At…

In this podcast episode, the Michaels delve into the The Bear episode "Sheridan". They discuss the importance of "windows of repair" in relationships. And they explore how attachment issues and miscommunication impact the cha...

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June 14, 2024

Unraveling Relationships | The Bear S1E4 "Dogs" | Episode 010 | Attac…

Can the complexities of attachment theory help us understand characters in a TV show? Join us as we explore Episode 9, "Dogs," of FX Hulu's "The Bear," to uncover the intricate layers of attachment that drive the narrative. C...

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June 7, 2024

Depths of Attachment and Addiction | The Bear S1E3 "Birgade" | Episod…

We the thorny topic of addiction within families, drawing parallels to Carmi's journey and the principles of Al-Anon. Addiction doesn't just affect the individual; it ripples through the entire family system. Timestamps: 0:00...

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May 30, 2024

Intriguing Themes and Symbolism | The Bear S1E2 "Hands" | Episode 008…

We analyze Season 1 Episode 2 of The Bear titled "Hands". We discuss the complex dynamic between characters Sydney and Carmi and their quest for purpose in life and their restaurant. They enjoy an espresso old-fashioned cock...

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May 23, 2024

Attachment and Emotional Healing | The Bear S1E1 "System | Episode 00…

Unlock the secrets of the human heart through the lens of FX series "The Bear". Gain a deeper appreciation for the delicate dance between the characters' diverse attachment styles and their quest for belonging and healing! C...

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May 16, 2024

Decoding Disorganized Attachment | Episode 006 | Attachment 4 the Peo…

Have you ever wondered why some individuals seem to navigate relationships with ease, while others teeter on the edge of chaos despite an outwardly stable life? Our latest episode plunges into the world of disorganized attach...

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May 10, 2024

Exploring Anxious Attachment | Episode 005 | Attachment 4 the People …

Unlock the secrets of anxious attachment and elevate your understanding of relationship dynamics in our latest episode. Sip on the complexity of human connections with us as we explore the nuances of anxious attachment theory...

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May 2, 2024

Bridging the Gap Between Solitude and Sociability | Episode 004 | Att…

Throughout the episode, we navigate the nuanced landscape where dismissive attachment strategies reside. These formative experiences — a child's emotional outreach met with consistent detachment — set the stage for a life pra...

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April 25, 2024

Savoring the Complexity of Relationships | Episode 003 | Attachment 4…

As we raise our glasses, we also raise awareness about the profound impact of attachment styles on our relationships and development. We discuss how early interactions with caregivers shape the way we interact with the world ...

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April 17, 2024

Decoding Relationships With the Science of Attachment | Episode 002 |…

Unlock the secrets of human connection and the science that reveals why we love, cling, or push away in our relationships. Prepare to have your perspective on love and attachment transformed as we journey through the landscap...

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April 3, 2024

Exploring the Attachments That Shape Us | Episode 001 | Attachment 4 …

Discovering the threads that connect our lives to those around us has been a journey full of twists, turns, and the occasional spilt drink. It's Michael Ashenfelter and Michael Leach here, and we're your guides through the fa...

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